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Non-Sexual Pieces of Advice That Could Be Beneficial for Couples to Know Before Marriage.

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Marriage, also called matrimony or wedlock, is a culturally and often legally recognized union between people called spouses. It establishes rights and obligations between them, as well as between them and their children (if any), and between them and their in-laws. It is nearly a cultural universal, but the definition of marriage varies between cultures and religions, and over time. Marriage becomes a social construct to adjudicate the conflicts of interest between consenting individuals and a transactional means to fulfill their needs. (Wikipedia)
Here are several pieces of advice and insights that can be helpful for couples considering marriage or already married:

Communication is Key: Open and honest communication is vital to any relationship. Couples should feel comfortable discussing their feelings, needs, and concerns with each other. This includes talking about non-sexual aspects of the relationship, such as emotional intimacy, shared goals, and future plans.

  • Financial Planning: Couples should have open discussions about their financial situation, including their current income, debts, and future financial goals. Establishing a budget, setting financial goals, and being transparent about spending habits can help prevent financial conflicts in the future.
  • Conflict Resolution Skills: Every relationship experiences disagreements and conflicts. Learning effective conflict resolution skills can help couples navigate these issues in a healthy way. This includes active listening, expressing feelings respectfully, and finding compromises that both parties can agree on.

 

  • Shared Responsibilities: Sharing responsibilities in the home, such as household chores and childcare, can help prevent resentment and promote a sense of teamwork. Couples should discuss and agree on how they will divide these responsibilities before getting married.

 

  • Maintaining Individuality: While marriage is a partnership, it’s also important for each person to maintain their own interests, hobbies, and friendships. This can help prevent codependency and ensure that both partners continue to grow and evolve as individuals.

 

  • Setting Boundaries: Establishing clear boundaries in a relationship is crucial. This includes respecting each other’s privacy, personal space, and time for self-care.

 

  • Continuing to Date Each Other: Just because a couple is married doesn’t mean the romance should stop. Regular date nights and surprise gestures can help keep the spark alive and strengthen the bond between partners.

 

  • Learning to Apologize and Forgive: No one is perfect, and everyone makes mistakes. Learning to apologize sincerely and forgive each other is important for resolving conflicts and maintaining a healthy relationship.

 

  • Supporting Each Other’s Goals and Dreams: A strong marriage involves supporting each other’s personal goals and dreams. This includes being each other’s biggest cheerleader, offering emotional support, and helping each other achieve their aspirations.

 

  • Seeking Help When Needed: If a couple is struggling with certain aspects of their relationship, it’s important to seek help. This could be in the form of couples therapy, individual counseling, or even self-help books and resources.

 

These non-sexual pieces of advice can help couples build a strong foundation for a healthy, happy marriage.

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Will You Be Mine? “Be Mine”

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An anthem for lovers

“Be Mine” is a heartfelt love ballad that captures the essence of romantic longing and devotion.

Frank Summer’s smooth, soulful vocals weave through the lyrics, painting a vivid picture of desire, vulnerability, and the beauty of love.

In “Be Mine,” Frank Summer expresses a yearning for connection and intimacy, inviting his beloved to embrace their shared moments and create lasting memories.

Kofi Bruce’s expert production enriches the song with sophisticated layers, blending modern R&B elements with classic influences, allowing it to appeal to listeners across generations.

Frank Summer’s electric performance at Made in Taadi Concert

“Be Mine” is not just a song; it’s an anthem for lovers, a celebration of romance that encourages the listener to cherish the ones they hold dear.

 

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Veteran Ghanaian Gospel Singer Yaw Sarpong Dead

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The veteran Ghanaian gospel singer Yaw Sarpong has passed on at age of 66.

The legendary musician, widely regarded as a pioneer in Ghanaian gospel music, died on Tuesday, January 20, 2026, at Emena Hospital in Kumasi, Ashanti Region, where he had been receiving treatment for prolonged health issues.

His manager, Nana Poku Ashis, confirmed the news, Yaw Sarpong had been battling ill health for several years, including complications from a stroke he suffered around early 2024 (with some reports noting issues since 2023). His condition had been public, with images and videos of his frail state circulating online in recent times.

Yaw Sarpong was the founder and leader of the iconic Asomafo Gospel Group (also known as Yaw Sarpong and Asomafo), which produced timeless classics blending traditional highlife with spiritual themes. Hits like “Wo Haw Ne Sen” and others from over 25 albums across more than four decades made him a beloved figure, influencing generations of gospel artists in Ghana and beyond.

His music bridged cultural sounds with worship, earning him immense respect in the Christian community and the broader music industry.

RIP wofa Yaw Sarpong

This loss comes just weeks after the death of Maame Tiwaa (also known as Maame Tiwa), a longtime key vocalist and collaborator in the Asomafo group, who passed away in December 2025. The back-to-back bereavements have left Ghana’s gospel fraternity in deep mourning. Tributes are pouring in across social media and news platforms, with many Ghanaians expressing grief and celebrating his enduring legacy of faith, healing, and inspiration through song.

 

May his soul rest in perfect peace.

 

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Archbishop Nicholas Duncan-Williams on Weddings and Debt

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'Have GH¢100,000 or don’t wed': Duncan-Williams slams lavish weddings, urges couples to marry without debt
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Archbishop Nicholas Duncan-Williams, the founder and leader of Action Chapel International, has sparked widespread discussion in Ghana with his recent sermon criticizing lavish weddings and calling for financial prudence before marriage.

In a viral video from his sermon (shared widely on January 12, 2026), he stated that couples—particularly the groom—should be discouraged from holding elaborate weddings unless the man can prove he has at least GH¢100,000 in savings in his bank account. His key message: Starting a marriage in debt sets a poor foundation and leads to unnecessary stress.

He explained:

“If the man cannot prove that at least he has GH¢100,000 in his bank account, he shouldn’t have a wedding. You don’t want to begin your marriage with debt. You go on honeymoon, and the phone starts ringing. Someone who supplied the chairs is calling, and another who provided the drinks is asking for money. Before you realise it, your ability to function is gone.”

The Archbishop emphasized that marriage is not the same as a wedding—the focus should be on long-term stability, not one-day extravagance. He criticized the pressure to host expensive “white weddings” and receptions, especially for young couples with limited means, noting that guests often end up criticizing rather than supporting the union.

As an alternative, he suggested simpler options like church-based mass weddings (multiple couples at once) with no receptions, bridal parties, or elaborate displays—just rings, blessings, and then couples can “go home, make love, make babies, [and] live your life.

“This isn’t the first time he’s addressed the topic; he gave similar advice in 2025 against borrowing for lavish events, even sharing his own early marriage experience under societal pressure.

The statement has gone viral, with media outlets like GhanaWeb, Graphic Online, and YEN.com.gh covering it extensively, and many Ghanaians debating it on social media. Some agree it’s practical advice against wasteful spending, while others see it as too strict or one-sided (e.g., focusing mainly on the man’s finances).

What do you think—does this GH¢100,000 threshold make sense in today’s Ghana, or is it too high? Weddings can be meaningful without breaking the bank!

 

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